Love your neighbor...

I have had the extreme pleasure of spending time with Michael and John Carlson (my brother) as they record Pod-casts for this website. Michael often speaks of how we need to love ourselves more and how that love will allow us to experience love for others. It is the realization of the religious phrase, "Love your neighbor... as yourself." How can we love others if we don't have love for ourselves? While gazing in the mirror at myself, one of "Love, Loss, & Forgiveness' practices, is the person I see one that I love? Can I then express that love and care for myself to others?